For many couples, the idea of a do-it-yourself divorce sounds like a relief.
No lawyers. No sky-high fees. Just a few forms, a notary, and a trip to the courthouse — right?
It’s no wonder DIY divorce has become so popular. When emotions are high and money is tight, “keeping it simple” feels like the only way forward.
But there’s a catch: divorce paperwork is only as good as what’s behind it.
If the financial details aren’t sound, or if key legal steps get missed, those “simple” decisions can create expensive, irreversible mistakes.
That’s why I always say — yes, you can do your own divorce. You just need to do it the right way.
What a DIY Divorce Really Means
A “DIY divorce” simply means handling your own process — completing and filing the paperwork, creating your settlement agreement, and managing the court filings — without hiring attorneys to do it all for you.
It can work well when:
- You and your spouse are cooperative and transparent
- Your finances are relatively straightforward
- You both want to save money and time
But even in the simplest cases, it’s easy to overlook important financial details that have long-term consequences. Divorce isn’t just about paperwork — it’s about setting up two separate financial lives that still work.
Why People Choose It
Let’s be honest: most people don’t want a legal battle. They just want out — fairly and affordably.
The appeal of DIY divorce is real:
- Lower cost: Legal fees can easily exceed $10,000 per spouse.
- Faster timeline: You’re not waiting on attorneys’ schedules.
- Control: You stay in charge of your own decisions.
The problem? Without professional review, you might not even know what you’re missing until it’s too late.
Common DIY Divorce Mistakes
Here are some of the biggest pitfalls I’ve seen over the years — and what they can cost.
1. The Missing QDRO
A couple agrees to split a retirement account 50/50 and puts it in their paperwork. But they never file the required Qualified Domestic Relations Order (QDRO).
Years later, when one spouse retires, the other gets… nothing.
Cost: $100,000+ in lost retirement income.
2. The House Headache
One spouse keeps the home “for stability.” No refinance, no appraisal, no tax review. Months later, they can’t afford the mortgage and learn they can’t qualify for refinancing — or claim the capital gains exemption later.
Cost: tens of thousands in taxes and credit damage.
3. The Tax Time Surprise
A “simple” agreement leaves one parent unable to claim dependents or deductions. Come April, they owe thousands more than expected.
Cost: $10,000 in lost tax savings — and a lot of stress.
Each of these started as a DIY divorce that seemed fine — until the details caught up.
How to Do DIY Divorce the Right Way
That’s where DIY Divorce Done Right™ by TruNorth comes in.
It’s designed for couples who want a low-cost, no-lawyer divorce option — without costly mistakes.
Instead of navigating confusing legal forms and hoping everything holds up, you get:
- Guided, questionnaire-based input — no legal jargon, no guesswork.
- Step-by-step filing guidance — exactly where to file, how to submit, and what to expect.
- Best-practice checklists for smooth court processing.
- Two hours of CDFA review — a Certified Divorce Financial Analyst reviews your proposed settlement and final agreement for financial fairness and soundness.
- Optional full-service preparation and filing — for those who want to hand it off completely.
This isn’t just “DIY paperwork.” It’s DIY with professional backup.
Who It’s Right For
DIY Divorce Done Right™ is ideal for couples who:
- Want to stay amicable and cooperative
- Have manageable assets (like a home, retirement accounts, or savings)
- Agree on most terms but want to make sure everything is financially fair
- Value peace of mind as much as saving money
Even if your situation is a bit more complex, starting with a guided DIY process can help you clarify your goals — and upgrade to full service if needed.
Why It Matters
Once a divorce is finalized, it’s incredibly hard to undo financial mistakes. Courts rarely reopen settled cases, even if you later realize something was missed.
That’s why an affordable review by a divorce financial professional can make all the difference. It’s the safeguard that lets you move forward confidently, knowing your agreement truly supports your future — not just your present.
The Bottom Line
A DIY divorce can absolutely work — if you do it the right way.
With DIY Divorce Done Right™ by TruNorth, you can:
- Save money and time
- Keep control of your process
- Avoid the financial traps that catch so many others off guard
Because when you’re ending a marriage, the last thing you need is a costly surprise.
Do it yourself — with the clarity, guidance, and peace of mind you deserve.
Learn more about DIY Divorce Done Right™ by TruNorth
The low-cost, no-lawyer divorce option that keeps you protected.
